Rob Jackson's Icebergology™ Journal

What If My Spouse Abuses Me?

Identifying abuse and taking wise steps toward protection and healing.

Mar 14 • Rob Jackson

How to Set a Boundary Without Feeling Guilty

"Let what you say be simply 'Yes' or 'No.'" — Matthew 5:37 (ESV)

Mar 6 • Rob Jackson

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February 2026

How Should We Handle Friendships with Others?

Why healthy friendships require shared priorities and clear boundaries.

Feb 28 • Rob Jackson

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How Should We Talk About Sensitive Issues?

Learning to navigate hard conversations with wisdom, grace, and partnership.

Feb 14 • Rob Jackson

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January 2026

What Does She Want from Me?

Understanding intimacy, trust, and what wives truly need in marriage.

Jan 31 • Rob Jackson

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You Don’t Let Go of What You Love — Until You Love Something More

Insight isn’t the problem. Awareness isn’t the problem. Even conviction, most of the time, isn’t the problem. The problem is that the heart is still…

Jan 26 • Rob Jackson

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What Does He Want from Me?

A reflection on intimacy, reassurance, and serving one another in marriage.

Jan 17 • Rob Jackson

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What If We Don't Like the Same Things?

When love is real but preferences do not match, how do couples grow without losing intimacy?

Jan 3 • Rob Jackson

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December 2025

How Often Is Normal?

What’s “normal” when it comes to sexual frequency in marriage? The answer may surprise you—and bring relief.

Dec 20, 2025 • Rob Jackson

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Brokenness Is Not Identity

A foundational essay articulating a Christian doctrine of the person—clarifying the difference between brokenness, sin, and identity, and why healing…

Dec 17, 2025 • Rob Jackson

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Waiting on God: Peace in the Slow Work of Advent

Scripture: Psalm 130 (ESV)

Dec 14, 2025 • Rob Jackson

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Loving Without Losing Yourself

Scripture: “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” — Romans 12:18 (ESV)

Dec 14, 2025 • Rob Jackson

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